I’ve had requests to create our suggestions for a sex toy starter kit. You don’t have to purchase all of these at the same time, but having them all on hand makes it easier (and more fun) when you’re playing 🙂
Vibrator & Attachments
I always suggest getting a Magic Wand and the attachment kit. This is perfect for singles, couples, or even groups!
Lube
You always want to have lube when playing with or without toys and this is our favorite.
Bondage (BDSM)
I know almost everyone has heard of and perhaps seen 50 Shades of Grey, but not as many have brought it into their sex life. There are far more extreme bondage devices, but these are perfect for beginners and even those with experience.
- Who says women get all the fun? These are great for guys and can provide extra pleasure and staying power. Don’t wear these longer than 20 minutes without removing them briefly to allow unrestricted blood flow.
- This set includes adjustable nipple clamps AND suction cups that can be used to enhance nipple sensitivity. The suction cups can also be used to enhance clitoral sensitivity.
- Easy to use restraints to keep the knees back toward the chest for easy access.
- These are placed between your mattress and box spring to make restraints easy. They are not permanent and easy to use.
- This kit adds a variety of bondage items that will enhance your experience.
- This was originally used in the medical field for testing sensitivity, but is great fun to use when you have someone restrained 🙂
- This is a basic high quality leather paddle to warm those buns and thighs up.
- This is easy to use and allows your partner to be suspended away from the floor as if you were holding them. Oh the fun you’ll have with this….
Anal
Anal sex toys aren’t for everyone, but I highly suggest incorporating one or both of these sets. They range from small to somewhat large, but nothing extreme. It’s important to know ahead of time if anyone is allergic to silicone before using these. Take your time when using these and enjoy the new sensations.
ALWAYS use plenty of lube and be aware that you can (probably) encounter fecal matter, so be sure to wash these off thoroughly with warm water and soap after each use.
Oh yeah – these are perfect to warm up your partner for anal sex. When you’re not using toys, be sure your partner is turned on, and be sure they know. Take your time, use plenty of lube, and do NOT thrust all the way in immediately – let your partner help guide you.